Let's take a moment to think outside of ourselves and our own problems and issues. Sometimes our world becomes so much smaller when we fail to see beyond our fall walls to the suffering, lonliness, and injustice going on around us. Are we in a place to offer hope and love to a desperate world? As a Christian what do you hope to be known for - someone who strictly adheres to the theology and belief system of Christianity always teaching or someone who lives out it's message at its core and practices and walk in love? Here are some practical ideas on becoming more merciful, compassionate and how to extend love.
Adapted from the book "Down We Go: Living into the wild ways of Jesus" by Kathy Escobar.
1. Start telling your own story more freely, more honestly, in a safe circle of friends. It's important to remember that we ALL have weaknesses and obstacles. Let down the guard and be honest with your struggles so that others will feel comfortable coming to you with theirs.
2. Remember that self-hatred, self-doubt, insecurity, depression, disconnectedness and loneliness are feelings that interfere with the ability to be compassionate towards ourselves, as well as others. Are there one or more of these feelings that you are bumping up against? Are you aware of the origin? Make an effort to speak out about these things with a close friend this week, and try not to hold back. We can only give what we have received and we stunt our own spiritual growth if we continually bury the pain and difficulties that we face.
3. Ask God to show you who around you is neglected, abandoned, forgotten or lonely. Check in with them, go hang out for awhile, bring food or flowers, and just "be" with them without offering advice or trying too hard. Are there single moms or dads who could use a day or night off, who may be pleasantly surprised about the offer? Can you think of someone in your life experiencing a divorce, death or loss of some kind? Do something special for them this week, to remind them that they are not alone.
4. Intentionally seek connection in your community or neighborhood with people not like you. If that scare you or feels too overwhelming at first, find out what agencies or ministries serve people in need and how you might be able to be part. If you are a part of TFC check out the Life Center!
5. Consider Mother Teresa's admonition: "If you can't feed 100 people, just feed one." Find the one. If you need some specific direction, look up your closest local food pantry location. Connect with the staff, and ask what you might be able to do to support their efforts. Think about Matthew 25:35: "When I was hungry, you gave me something to eat." This goes deeper than just food. It talks about basic needs and desires of people. Ask God to guide you and direct your steps and remember that it's ok to feel unsure if you've never stepped out before!
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